********WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this.*********** I am half of "hawaiibicouple1" and there are more photos on that account, check them out. Will play as a couple or alone... I decided to update this some after the extreme amount of emails I was getting. Hopefully this clarifies some things and helps people see if we are a fit. I am a 5’-8’’ tall woman with medium length curly brown hair and hazel eyes. I think I am completely average looking but am always being told how gorgeous I am so who knows. I won’t lie...I normally have an athletic build, but the extreme stress of my job and my life in general the last couple of years has caused me to put on a few extra pounds that I am still trying to take off. I think I still look pretty good. I would put face pics up here if I could but I can’t due to work reas. If I am comfortable enough with you, think that there is a good chance we’ll get together, and I trust you will be discreet I will send you a few face pics. As far as my perality, I am not exactly your average girl...I grew up being the only girl in the neighborhood and have always had all male friends. I am comfortable being “just one of the guys” but that doesn’t mean that I am a tom boy. I enjoy being girly from time to time, dressing up, getting sexy and love heels and stilettos (if my feet aren’t killing me from work). I work hard and have a crazy schedule so on my off time I like to relax and unwind. I love music, good food, and good drink. I am a meat-and-potatoes-at-an-Irish-pub kinda girl. My Turn Ons: The superficial stuff like great arms, chest, abs, and ass are always a plus but are not always the most important thing. Men and women with sexy peralities really do it for me. I am not always great with small talk and can be quiet, but with the right chemistry you won’t be able to get me to shut up. I love funny people, if you can make me laugh you are golden. I really like Tattoos on other people, just not me. Long hair on guys sends me over the edge, I love it...however Military haircuts have been known to get me going too. I am normally into older men and younger women, but that doesn’t mean I am not open to anything outside of that. However, I am really not interested in anyone over 50 or under 21...let’s not get nuts. Turn Offs: Let me start this by saying I love all people however an early experience with an Asian guy has completely turned me off to all Asian men, sorry. I am have not totally sworn off Asian women so it’s not totally off the table. Lastly, I have never been attracted to Black guys, sorry, I’m just not. I’m also not into pushy guys. Sending me several pics of your cock with a phone number and the caption “lets hit it tonight” is not going to do it for me, so if that is your deal, please don’t bother. Fine Print: I am married in an open relationship, free to play as I please. If you are married, you should be free to play as well. I am not interested in drama and breaking up homes...so your Spouse must be aware of your activities. If you can’t say that then we are probably not a good match. Although I am free to play, I haven’t really explored this. It makes me somewhat new to this. I have been on AFF on and off for the past several years but never hooked up with anyone for various different reas. My work and other responsibilities keep me very busy. I do have young ren at home who know nothing about our alternate activities and I would like to keep it that way. I can’t just run off in the middle of the day or just a random night of the week to meet up with someone without completely rearranging my schedule. Nor can I have someone pop over for a quick one. This makes it all the more difficult to meet people on here. So, for those looking for quick hook-ups, you probably need to pass me by. I am not going to jump into bed with random people that I haven’t taken some time to get to know...that’s just not who I am. I would like to take things slow at first. So there will be probably be a lot of conversation before anything happens. Discretion is an absolute must. I work closely with the Military and getting caught with a Soldier or a Spouse is a career-ender for me so I take discretion pretty seriously and you should too. If you have made it this far and are still interested shoot me an note :-) Here's the stuff from the "instant writer" if you are interested: Commitment-wise, it doesn't have to be serious, so long as we enjoy it. I've reached the point where I'm free to do what I want, when I want, with who I want. It feels good. When I'm at home alone, odds are I've brought work from the office with me. To me, traveling means leaving the everyday world behind. I want to try all the things I've always wanted to do. The philosophy I live by is stay relaxed, stay mellow, stay loose and be open to whatever happens. I look forward to whatever life brings. I'm not changing my life, but I want to explore a few new options and see how it works out. If you contact me please be discreet. I'll do the same for you.

My Ideal Person Fun, easy going and sexy inside and out.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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