I am looking for something that could be fun, could be serious. I want to expand my circle of friends. I like music. All kinds. A day hiking or relaxing at the beach. Picnics in the park or a glass of wine by the fire. I need to know someone before the sparks will fly. I am losing weight pretty steadily and don't want to stop, so extra padding today may be average next year. I am STD and drug free. Celibacy does that, but is a habit that can be broken with the right touch. I fell in love with the country the past 2 years and travel there a few times a year. I desire a long term relationship or marriage, but if there is an interesting side trip or two before I find that then we'll both have some fun and build some friendship. I want a friends first thing. I have to trust someone to really have fun. So plan on meeting first for a non-sexual agenda first time we meet. And its a guy thing, I am a sexist pig, but a chivalrous, kind gentleman as well. I am honest. My friends say sometimes TOO honest.

My Ideal Person I am looking for someone who is real. Someone who can help motivate me while I motivate them. Someone that not only sparks fly but the area around us ignites. Poetry in motion even if it is taking it slow. Quiet and shy when it fits, and wild and wonderful when it is right. STD free and no drugs is a must. Generous with their soul as I am with mine.

I am looking in 2 areas, Puget Sound and Ukraine/Russia (okay so three areas). If you are outside that area but want to contact me anyway, okay, I don't think I will limit things too too much by geography as I like to travel. If you are from Ukraine or Russia, or in some other place on the other side of the world, I will be looking for a long term relationship that expects to end in marriage. Long distance "flings" are right out.

If you are attached, married, or otherwise committed please be finished with that relationship. I am really a nice guy and was on the other side of one of those. While life is short and all moments precious, know in your heart your past committed relationship is dead before moving on.

If you are a scammer don't bother to contact me unless you are interested in me, not scamming me. If you direct me to another website that requires a fee to access your "additional photos" contact information, etc. You are a scammer. Even if advertised as free but needs a credit card, you're a scammer. So just don't.

If you are in Ukraine (or Russia and willing to meet me in Ukraine) I know you will be extremely unlikely to get a US visa to visit. And if we write each other and plan to meet and you become suspiciously ill, hit by a truck, have your apartment broken into, etc. I'll probably not want to help you until after we have met the first time. I am a gentleman though and generous, so if we've met and are exclusive to each other and I trust you because you've not shown me reason to doubt, I'll be a friend and help if I can.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
The Eagles, Harry Chapin, The Cure, Metric (today at least), Judy Collins, Foreigner, The Firm ...

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Mutual Masturbation, SEX, how could they leave that off the list :)

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

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