British and travelling around Spain for a while, working from my laptop in my IT job. Not looking for a long term relationship, but do need to satisfy some biological needs! Ideally we would get on as people to a certain degree....sex in any form is way more fun if you actually enjoy the other per's company :D I'm a musician-hippie-rocker-folky-nerdy kind of thing. People who know me from one of those contexts can often be surprised when they see me in another! i grew up in a female household and would consider myself a feminist. Although I can be as confident and domineering as you want in the bedroom, I'm not one of those guys who gets weird if you want to back out or who doesn't see you as a human. I get the most gratification when I'm making a woman cum....call it ego, need for validation, whatever. If I'm not getting the ego-satisfaction of giving someone else pleasure, all because of me(!), then I may as well just stay at home and masturbate.

My Ideal Person Hmmmmmm.....maybe bookish, funny, arty kind of girls....but basically anyone nice who knows how to laugh and is looking for relaxed fun.

Ideally you'd consider a meet-up to be like meeting for meditation, massage or any other sensory enjoyment with new people.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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