Sorry to put this up front but - NO SOLO MEN. I'm flattered, but not interested. I'm a passionate, energetic, open-minded yet highly-selective arts-oriented writer and speaker and intellectual performer (my animated, often-profane, anecdote-laden, media-rich style of presentation is fairly outside of the dry academic model) seeking a kindred independently-minded, physically embracing intimacy companion. Oh, and I never met a run-on sentence I didn't love. Yeah, I blame exposure to far too much Poe and Lovecraft during my formative years. In the spirit of full disclosure, honesty and not consuming your valuable time on an issue that might be a deal-breaker, I am married and very much in love with, and committed to, my wife who endorses (but doesn't share - sorry folks) my search for an extra-curricular intimacy companion. Unconventional, yup. Complicated....a bit. But worthwhile. For the visually oriented, I have photos available upon request only. I'm a semi-public figure and my wonderful wife would prefer that I stay visually anonymous to the general public. They say the internet is written in pen. I try to be selective in my graffiti. For the curious...and once I get to know you, I'm easily found on a Google search, confirming that my ax-murdering days are long past (meaning axes all around the world can now breath a sigh of relief.) Oh....and yes, my photos are of me-even the ones in my private "for friends only" section. Yes, they are current. And yes....they are posted with the blessing of my former partner....a goodbye gift. So reach out should the spirit move you. Otherwise, happy seeking, and ecstatic finding. PRIVACY NOTICE: Warning - any per and/or institution and/or Agent and/or Agency of any governmental structure including but not limited to the United States Federal Government also using or monitoring/using this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including, but not limited to my photos & videos, and/or the comments made about my photos, videos or any other "picture" art posted on my profile. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action against me with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee, agent, student or any penal under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, and the violation of my penal privacy is punishable by law. UCC 1-103 1-308 ALL RIGHTS

My Ideal Person Looking for a creative, positive, sensual, sophisticated partner with an open mind and a terrific sense of fun for an on-going passionate, mature, mufti-dimensional mutually fulfilling relationship - minus the ring. My intimate takes care of herself, isn't so thin or brittle as to break, nor carries too much weight - emotional and physical - to not be able to keep up. For her, our sex will start in the imagination, and work its way outward through all five senses.

She will understands that “smart” and “prude” need not be not synonyms, nor are “crude” and “attractive”, or “safe” and “dull.” Logistically, she will be available primarily during the daytime, and will be looking for encounters a few times each month.

First disclaimer, even if you've the prose of Vonnegut and the curves of Christina Hendricks, I don't respond to folks outside of Hawaii, unless you're from the Bay Area, or L.A. - both of which I visit often for work, to visit with friends and family. However, if you're traveling and looking for companionship while ON the Islands - i'm only a few keystrokes away..

Though it need not be said, I'm saying it anyway: for all you scammers, pirate entrepreneurs, internet vulture capitalists and would-be identity thieves, as a courtesy so as to not waste my time, nor your greed, no matter how creatively couched, I never give out my credit card digits - not even for "age verification". No exceptions. No how. No fooling. Not never.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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