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rm_ERNESTO422 55 M
2  questions
Boots - 8/3/2008

My question is what is a boot? I have been on the chat lines and am always hearing boy their are alot of boots on here today. Are boots people trying to get you to go to their web site and pay for a membership for you to chat with them?

12 response(s), 15 votes
Hands2pleasyou 53 M
7  questions
Haters, WHY ? - 8/3/2008

A few AdultFriendFinder members should remember the site name is FRIEND finder not hate monger if hate is all your about why don't you just stay in the outside world where you will find your fill. I hope the people here are with me on this hate and anger are easy emotions, love and friendship are harder ones but you can at lest try to be nice to others and give constructive comments and posts or is that all ...

33 response(s), 58 votes
rm_ERNESTO422 55 M
2  questions
Foreplay - 8/3/2008

This is for both women and men. I love long foreplay, I believe it leads to great sex. Some of the things I do are warm oil massages, and with women with their pantys still on, I spray whipped cream in them and than lick and suck them clean. Drives them wild. What are some other things people do to extend foreplay?

16 response(s), 20 votes
colomountainmn 64 C
3  questions
Synthetic Suckers - 8/3/2008

I've noticed in some (or rather most) girl-on-girl scenes of porn, at least one of them starts giving "head" to the toy being used. Personally, I think this is silly. I love sucking real cock, but get no pleasure from sucking on my vibrator anymore than to lube it up. Some directors waste up to 10 minutes of synthetic sucking, how lame! Am I alone in feeling this way?

17 response(s), 16 votes
sooup 48 M
3  questions
why not answer all who contact - 8/3/2008

why is it that people will not wright back an tell you sorry not interested but you have to guess that they are not i thought this site adults to comunicate.........

18 response(s), 17 votes
austintatious234 61 M
1  question
When will I learn,,,, - 8/3/2008

OK that was a Q...My turn!

15 response(s), 41 votes
THICKHOTLATINA2 35 C
2  questions
make love to me or fuck the hell out of me - 8/3/2008

ladies do u preferr to be made love to or do u like to be fucked the hell out of and fellas do u preferr to make love to your lady or do u like to fuck the shit out of her

27 response(s), 55 votes
nicco100 55 M
165  questions
ladies - 8/3/2008

What are the two most sensitive parts of your body?

14 response(s), 13 votes
Scent of a woman - 8/3/2008

All women smell differently, even after showering. What do you find more erotic, the sterile pussy, or the one that you can smell from the foot of the bed?

21 response(s), 19 votes
eng53XX 66 C
2  questions
wife cheating - 8/3/2008

my wife confessed that she cheated me and got hard nice fucked many times, i forgived her and asked to be together in swingers life style, she refused, saying she shys to be fucked in front of me..... how to make her agree ???? she is very sexy and so hot enjoying in bed when we talk and imagin about swinging

18 response(s), 30 votes
colomountainmn 64 C
3  questions
Sex Toys: Friend or Foe? - 8/2/2008

Men... do you consider sex toys an asset in the sack, or do you view them as competition?

16 response(s), 16 votes
colomountainmn 64 C
3  questions
Cum Shots - 8/2/2008

I'm I the only one who'd like to see more girls swallowing cum (and liking it)? Is anyone familiar with any porn that contains such shots? I get bored with pornstars spewing their wads all over bodies, faces, etc. or girls catching cum in their mouths, only to drool it back on themselves? I love to swallow!! And would like to see some flicks (or at least know there are others out there like ...

14 response(s), 19 votes
Wonder how many women can feel satisfied with just intimate skin? - 8/2/2008

Late sixties male with long history of very satisfying sexual intimacy with a few committed women over the years--I mean fully sexual intimacy.

Now, looking more for just plain skin/genital/peri-anal touching and stroking and mutual intimate pleasure with aa woman, sans penetration. Don't care for the pills, etc that produce full erection and no-fail penetration. More and more, just ...

15 response(s), 23 votes
bootnocka1966 48 C
2  questions
How best to be supportive - 8/2/2008

My wife/mate/life partner is concerned about the few pounds that she put on since we got married. She's georgious to me and i can't keep my hands off her. I try to gently nudge her to become more active and cut out the between meal snacks, and we even bouhgt PX90 for $150.00 and it's gathering dust. How can i be supportive enough to get the results she desires and yet not seem like a dick? I ...

16 response(s), 28 votes
wickedcat2006 49 F
292  questions
quickies! - 8/2/2008

how often should we have them and whats the ideal length of time?

15 response(s), 22 votes
Fukcdoll 39 F
86  questions
2 duche or not 2 doche? That is the question? - 8/2/2008

I realy hope that this question dosen't offend anyone but it seems to me that some ladies forget to take care of trhier "inner beauty" if u know what I mean? *wink*

I love, love, love oral- and it truely is better to give than to recive, for me, though I'll not turn down offering my buffet when asked tee hee

But I guess my question is... why more woman don't duche?

I'd ...

21 response(s), 52 votes
Marriedfella2 59 M
1  question
Load Size - 8/2/2008

How important is the actual ejaculate? Might have prostate cancer and the removal I am told means hard ons, cumming but no ejaculate.

Hw important is the actual fluis

12 response(s), 18 votes
Pad8 43 C
9  questions
What to say in voice intros? - 8/2/2008

Can't say we've ever heard anyone's voice introduction...

What do people say in them and we guess what do people want to hear?

Guess we are also curious what should be in a video introduction...

Thanks!

9 response(s), 25 votes
Pad8 43 C
9  questions
Is Gold Really Worth It? - 8/2/2008

This might of been discussed before but we are wondering if Gold Membership is really worth it?

Currently as a Standard member we can respond to emails, blog, view albums in a friends network etc. Even this cool magazine feature.

So with the extra features of gold, do you meet more quality people? Get more good responses and ultimately make more connections and friends? ...

16 response(s), 41 votes
rosey red bum - 8/2/2008

why arnt there a lot more people into the spanking scene, if its done with the right care and attention a lot of people dont realise how sexualy arousing and so satisfying this can be.ive had some of my best orgasms after having my tight ass totally thrashed obvioUsly with me giving directions so as im not hurt.seems to me cp etc is still a taboo with many folk am i right ?

18 response(s), 20 votes
Have you noticed how after exchanging only a few emails that you feel as though you know the person? - 8/2/2008

I'm a Standard Member, having joined Passion.com only a few days ago - a week to be exact and did it basically out of curiosity. But to my surprise have found myself getting hooked really quickly. What I'm noticing is how - after merely a few emails then perhaps two, three or more phone calls(a day)over a period of three to four days - that I feel as though I've known some of these guys for ...

10 response(s), 12 votes
rm_nicole0306 38 F
1  question
men and porn - 8/1/2008

why is it that i can prance around half naked rolling around on the bed and he will sit and watch porn on both the computer and t.v.? i am young and attractive and want to half sex everyday. are some men just that way or am i doing something wrong?

21 response(s), 21 votes
PulchyJo 35 F
51  questions
Annoying..? - 8/1/2008

Does anyone else find it annoying when someone gets on here, and will post 4 or 5 questions, , usually nonsense, one after another.. I like to come on here and read honest to goodness comments and questions, , and these posters just waste my time. I guess i don't understand what this 10 question thing is all about, , maybe i need to take the time to figure it out.

15 response(s), 28 votes
dondinero20066 44 C
11  questions
Progestogen only pill (POP or mini pill) - 8/1/2008

Progestogen only pill (POP or mini pill) What it is

5 response(s), 27 votes
dondinero20066 44 C
11  questions
Female sterilisation - 8/1/2008

Female sterilisation What it is

3 response(s), 30 votes
dondinero20066 44 C
11  questions
Diaphragm/Cap with spermicide - 8/1/2008

Diaphragm/Cap with spermicide What iS THIS

4 response(s), 22 votes
dondinero20066 44 C
11  questions
Intrauterine device (IUD) - 8/1/2008

Intrauterine device (IUD) What it is

1 response(s), 21 votes
dondinero20066 44 C
11  questions
Contraceptive patch - 8/1/2008

What it is

3 response(s), 20 votes
dondinero20066 44 C
11  questions
Contraceptive injection - 8/1/2008

What it is

4 response(s), 25 votes
rm_Char13sy 36 M
1  question
New to the Site.... - 8/1/2008

Just finding it hard to use the site and meet people, tips welcome...

11 response(s), 14 votes