so its been my experience in this modern "hook up" culture that whenever there is a real "connection" or the chemistry is right with a guy that they tend to run away and never want to see me again, even though the vibe was right when we met. im sure that the nature of the meeting being a hook up has something to do with it but come on....are gay men that far removed that all they can get off nowadays is NSA hookups? how sad...