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ijustwantsex0312 38M  
17 posts
4/24/2018 11:32 pm

Me personally. I'm not looking for love on here. Just a FWB thay can keep it at that level. I'm a cool person and Everytime I mess with a supposedly mature woman who understands what I'm looking for she catches feelings. Once I tell her I don't feel the same im all of a sudden the bad guy. So after a few times I tend to stop talking to women because I'm not looking for love. Especially not on a site like this. I'll go to eHarmony like a normal person and find a freak like I have several times before.


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
4/25/2018 1:28 am

I dont think I have ever ghosted anyone. I have on the otherhand been ghosted by several women, and that has always left me wondering what the hell I did wrong to make them do that. In fact, has happened twice right here on AdultFriendFinder, in the last month. So if you hear a true answer as to why anyone does this, let us all know please.


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
4/25/2018 4:54 am

I'm guilty of ghosting someone after a lengthy going-nowhere email exchange but never after sex tho..... One thing I do know is that ghosting usually has nothing to do with the ghostee, it's all about the ghoster and the perceived power/ego trip they get from it.


cumboi65 72M

4/25/2018 4:55 am

I have never "ghosted" any woman or man for that matter.
One who does needs to get a life.
If you had a "bad" time, just be honest and upfront and explain why.
I'm sorry it happened to you and I'm sure that, if we were closer, I would never do that to you. You are a gorgeous woman.


ArglBargl14 61M

4/25/2018 5:46 am

Because it's easier than being honest and dealing with the potential fallout from that? I'm just speculating as I don't think I've ever ghosted anyone. Maybe once, but I'm pretty sure she was a bit nutty, and it may have been mutual as I never heard from her either. I do remember the times I specifically told women "This doesn't seem to be working" and they thanked me for that. I've also been on the receiving end of things suddenly ending and getting no explanation and therefore no closure. Not necessarily ghosting but "it's not you" explains nothing.


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